“The stone fidelity / They hardly meant has come to be / Their final blazon.”
These lines are from Philip Larkin's poem "An Arundel Tomb," published in The Whitsun Weddings in 1964. The speaker reflects on the medieval tomb effigy of an earl and countess located in Chichester Cathedral, where their carved figures rest side by side, with the earl's hand gently holding the countess's—an almost incidental detail in the sculpture. The quoted lines appear towards the end of the poem as the speaker considers the irony of how history endures: the couple likely didn’t mean for their joined hands to make a grand romantic statement, yet after centuries of erosion, their heraldic "blazon" (coats of arms and noble identity) has faded while that one tender gesture remains. This part of the poem probes the nature of love and monuments—what we leave behind might express something deeper, or at least more enduring, than our original intentions. It leads into the poem's well-known, ambiguous final line ("What will survive of us is love"), which challenges whether that survival reflects true emotion or is simply a byproduct of stone. Larkin uses the tomb to delve into themes of time, mortality, and the persistent human desire to believe in the lasting nature of love.
Lyric speaker (Philip Larkin) · Stanza 6 (penultimate stanza) · Meditation on the medieval tomb effigy of an earl and countess, Chichester Cathedral