- cottage maidennounChapter 1 →
A young woman of low social rank who lives and works in a rural cottage, as opposed to a lady of wealth or noble birth.
- toiledverbChapter 1 →
Worked hard and continuously at exhausting physical labour, especially in the fields.
- silken knotphraseChapter 1 →
A decorative tie made of silk, worn as an ornament; here used as a metaphor for how the lord treated the narrator as a pretty accessory rather than a person.
“He wore me like a silken knot, / He changed me like a glove.”
- writ in sandphraseChapter 1 →
Written in sand, meaning temporary and easily erased; used here to say that Kate's love is not genuine or lasting, unlike the narrator's.
“O cousin Kate, my love was true, / Your love was writ in sand.”
- mistressnounChapter 1 →
A woman who has a sexual relationship with a man who is not her husband and to whom she is not married, typically kept in a position of social inferiority.
- discardedverbChapter 1 →
Thrown away or abandoned as if worthless, the way one tosses aside an object that is no longer useful.
- lawfuladjectiveChapter 1 →
Recognised and approved by law; here it describes Kate's marriage as legally and socially legitimate, in contrast to the narrator's unofficial relationship.
- fretverbChapter 1 →
To worry or feel anxious and discontented about something; here it suggests Kate is secretly troubled despite her respectable position.
“For all your clothes and wedding-ring / I've little doubt you fret.”
- illegitimateadjectiveChapter 1 →
Born to parents who are not married to each other; in this period such a child had no legal rights and carried social stigma.
- vindicationnounChapter 1 →
Proof that someone was right or justified after being blamed or shamed; the narrator sees her son as evidence that her love had real, lasting consequences.
- crownnounChapter 1 →
Here used figuratively to mean the lord's highest possessions, rank, and authority — everything he values most — which he would surrender to claim the narrator's son.
- writverbChapter 1 →
An archaic past participle of 'write,' meaning written; used in the poem in place of the modern form 'written.'
“Your love was writ in sand.”
Cousin KateShort story by Christina Rossetti