The Annotated Edition
Our Two Opinions by Eugene Field
Two men who grew up as neighbors develop a stubborn feud during their childhood, spending twenty years barely able to stand each other — even after marrying sisters.
- Poet
- Eugene Field
- Core theme
- Death
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§01Quick summary
What this poem is about
§02Themes
Recurring themes
§03Line by line
Stanza by stanza, with notes
Us two wuz boys when we fell out,-- / Nigh to the age uv my youngest now;
Editor's note
The speaker adopts a friendly, conversational tone. He recalls a childhood spat with Jim over something so minor that it’s almost lost to memory — "some small deeff'rence" — yet that little disagreement ignited a grudge lasting for decades. By referencing their ages alongside his youngest child, he subtly highlights just how ridiculous and enduring the feud truly was.
Grew up together 'nd would n't speak, / Courted sisters, 'nd marr'd 'em, too;
Editor's note
The irony is striking: these two men who won’t talk to each other are living lives that mirror one another. They go to the same church and marry into the same family, yet their animosity endures. The constant refrain — each man clinging to his view of the other — hits like a drumbeat, highlighting how entrenched and almost ritualistic their stubbornness has grown. The reference to Abraham Lincoln recruiting soldiers for the Union Army firmly grounds the poem in the context of the Civil War.
But down in Tennessee one night / Ther' wuz sound uv firin' fur away,
Editor's note
The war manifests as an undeniable presence — distant gunfire, a sergeant's warning, the looming threat of death. In this vulnerable moment, the speaker's thoughts wander to his wife Lizzie and their home, and that's when Jim suddenly appears before him. The sight of Jim, "long 'nd slim" in the dark, takes on an eerie quality, hinting at what lies ahead. The refrain remains the same: while opinions haven't changed, the stakes have escalated to life-and-death.
Seemed like we knew there wuz goin' to be / Serious trouble f'r me 'nd him;
Editor's note
This is the emotional hinge of the poem. Without exchanging a single word, the two men shake hands. Field emphasizes the silence — "never a word from me or Jim" — because talking would mean one of them has to give in. The handshake serves as a truce that acknowledges nothing and gives nothing up, yet it means everything. Interestingly, the refrain shifts subtly: "I" appears before "Jim" in the first line and after in the second, as if even the arrangement of words is part of the negotiation.
Jim never come back from the war again, / But I ha' n't forgot that last, last night
Editor's note
Jim dies in the war, leaving the speaker alone with the memory of that silent handshake. The repetition of "last, last night" conveys deep sorrow. The closing lines deliver a quiet gut-punch: the speaker takes comfort — "soothin'" — in knowing that neither man ever backed down from his beliefs. It strikes a balance of tenderness and dark humor, celebrating stubbornness as a form of loyalty. They were equals in their conflict, and death didn’t alter that.
§04Tone & mood
How this poem feels
§05Symbols & metaphors
Symbols & metaphors
- The handshake
- The silent handshake before battle is the poem's main symbol. It represents a reconciliation that neither man will openly acknowledge — a moment of human connection that completely sidesteps pride. It conveys everything the two men can't express in words.
- The repeated refrain
- The refrain — each man holding his own opinion of the other — represents a stubborn form of equality. Its unchanging nature underscores the idea: the feud remains perfectly balanced, with neither man being more right or wrong than the other. By the final stanza, it feels less like a joke and more like an epitaph.
- "Abe Linkern" and the war
- Lincoln's call for soldiers reflects a power beyond individual grudges — it's history intervening. The war doesn't settle the feud, but it paves the way for that one genuine moment between the two men.
- Home and Lizzie
- The speaker's thoughts of his wife and home in the dark before the battle reflect all that the war threatens to take away. It’s the moment of vulnerability that allows Jim to resurface, even if just for a moment.
§06Form & structure
Form & structure
- Meter
- ballad meter
- Rhyme
- ABABCDCD ABABCDCD ABABCDCD ABABCDCD ABABCDCD
§07Historical context
Historical context
§08FAQ
Questions readers ask
What is the poem actually about?
It's about two childhood friends who get into a petty feud and end up hating each other for twenty years, even though their lives remain connected. They both join the Civil War, exchange a silent handshake the night before a battle, and then Jim is killed. The speaker looks back on it all with a blend of grief and dry humor.
What does the repeating refrain mean?
The refrain — "he havin' his opinyin uv me, 'nd I havin' my opinyin uv him" — serves as both the poem's ongoing joke and its emotional heart. It reflects how neither man ever acknowledged the other's point of view. By the end, following Jim's death, the refrain loses its humor and instead resonates like a eulogy for two equally stubborn and very human men.
Why do they shake hands without saying anything?
Because speaking would mean one of them had to back down, and neither was willing to do that. The handshake serves as a way of recognizing one another — perhaps even showing some care — without anyone having to admit defeat. Field emphasizes the silence: "never a word from me or Jim."
Who is "Abe Linkern"?
That's Abraham Lincoln, pronounced in the speaker's dialect. This refers to Lincoln's appeals for volunteers to join the Union Army during the Civil War. Both men respond to that call, adding another layer of irony—they dislike each other but stand united in their loyalties when it matters.
What does "Johnnie Rebs" mean?
"Johnnie Rebs" (or Johnny Rebs) was a term used by Union soldiers to refer to Confederate soldiers during the Civil War. This indicates that the speaker and Jim are on the Union side.
Is the poem meant to be funny or sad?
Both elements contribute to its effectiveness. The dialect, the ridiculousness of a decades-long feud over something long forgotten, and the deadpan refrain create a genuinely funny experience. At the same time, Jim's death and the poignant image of that last silent handshake are truly moving. Field masterfully balances both tones, ensuring that neither diminishes the other.
What is the theme of the poem?
The main themes are stubbornness versus connection, and how war removes the little things that help people maintain distance from each other. There’s also a discussion about male friendship — how two men can care for one another without being able to express it directly.
Why does the speaker say it's "soothin'" at the end?
It's a complicated kind of comfort. The speaker isn't happy that Jim is dead, but he finds solace in their relationship staying honest and equal until the end. Neither man pretended the feud was resolved when it wasn't. The handshake felt genuine because it didn't come with a phony apology.
Citation
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MLA
Field, Eugene. "Our Two Opinions." Storgy, https://storgy.com/poems/our-two-opinions-eugene-field/.
APA
Field, E. (n.d.). Our two opinions. Storgy. https://storgy.com/poems/our-two-opinions-eugene-field/
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1 ptEugene Field's 'Our Two Opinions' features a dialect-voiced Civil War speaker and a refraining couplet that maintains its words while subtly shifting its meaning to argue that genuine human solidarity does not require the erasure of …
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