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WITH TWO SPOONS FOR TWO SPOONS by Eugene Field

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Eugene Field wrote this short poem as a gift to go along with two spoons he gave to a couple named Harvey and Ellen Jenney, likely on their wedding anniversary.

Poet
Eugene Field
Themes
friendship, love, memory
The PoemFull text

WITH TWO SPOONS FOR TWO SPOONS

Eugene Field

How trifling shall these gifts appear Among the splendid many That loving friends now send to cheer Harvey and Ellen Jenney. And yet these baubles symbolize A certain fond relation That well beseems, as I surmise, This festive celebration. Sweet friends of mine, be spoons once more, And with your tender cooing Renew the keen delights of yore-- The rapturous bliss of wooing. What though that silver in your hair Tells of the years aflying? 'T is yours to mock at Time and Care With love that is undying. In memory of this Day, dear friends, Accept the modest token From one who with the bauble sends A love that can't be spoken.

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§01Quick summary

What this poem is about

Eugene Field wrote this short poem as a gift to go along with two spoons he gave to a couple named Harvey and Ellen Jenney, likely on their wedding anniversary. He humorously notes that his humble present seems small beside everyone else's extravagant gifts, but insists that spoons hold a unique significance — "spooning" was a Victorian slang term for cozy romantic cuddling. The poem wraps up by expressing that his true gift is the love he struggles to articulate.

§02Themes

Recurring themes

§03Line by line

Stanza by stanza, with notes

  1. How trifling shall these gifts appear / Among the splendid many

    Editor's note

    Field starts with a bit of self-deprecating humor, openly admitting that two spoons are a humble gift when compared to the more extravagant ones other guests have brought. He immediately mentions the recipients — Harvey and Ellen Jenney — which gives the poem a cozy, personal touch reminiscent of a toast at a gathering.

  2. And yet these baubles symbolize / A certain fond relation

    Editor's note

    Here, Field shifts from an apology to playful humor. "Baubles" continues the self-mockery, while "a certain fond relation" offers a cheeky nod: in Victorian slang, to "spoon" meant to court or cuddle romantically. The spoons are more than just cutlery; they symbolize the couple's affectionate bond in a lighthearted way.

  3. Sweet friends of mine, be spoons once more, / And with your tender cooing

    Editor's note

    This line captures both the essence of the poem's humor and its heartfelt sentiment. Field encourages the couple to "be spoons" once more — to embrace the playful and loving actions of their early romance. The word "cooing" paints a picture of two individuals snuggled up like doves, completely absorbed in one another.

  4. What though that silver in your hair / Tells of the years aflying?

    Editor's note

    The tone shifts gently here. "Silver in your hair" recognizes that Harvey and Ellen are no longer young — they've aged together. However, Field presents this not as a loss, but as a sign of endurance. Time has passed, but their love has endured through it all.

  5. In memory of this Day, dear friends, / Accept the modest token

    Editor's note

    The final stanza brings everything together with genuine emotion. Field sets aside the clever wordplay and speaks directly: the spoons serve as a memento for the occasion, but the true gift lies in the love behind them — a feeling "that can't be spoken." It's a quietly poignant way to conclude, especially from a poet who has thrived on the power of words.

§04Tone & mood

How this poem feels

Warm and playful, with a hint of real tenderness beneath the surface. Field keeps the mood light — he jokes about his own talent, throws in a Victorian in-joke about spooning — but by the final stanza, the humor shifts to something more sincere and a bit vulnerable. It has the feel of a good toast: amusing at the start, heartfelt by the end.

§05Symbols & metaphors

Symbols & metaphors

The two spoons
On the surface, it seems like just a wedding gift. However, Field plays with the Victorian slang meaning of "spooning" — which refers to romantic closeness and courtship — suggesting that the spoons symbolize the couple's love, both in their past and in the present.
Silver in the hair
A simple image of aging, but Field embraces it as a celebration rather than a lament. The grey hair reflects a life lived together, serving as a reminder of shared experiences rather than a cause for regret.
The modest token
The spoons symbolize the boundaries of material gifts while highlighting the infinite nature of true emotions. Field employs the object's small size to amplify the emotions it conveys.

§06Historical context

Historical context

Eugene Field was a journalist and poet from Chicago, primarily recognized today for his children's poem "Wynken, Blynken, and Nod." However, he dedicated a significant portion of his career to writing occasional poems — works linked to specific events, people, or moments. This poem exemplifies that tradition well. In Victorian America, anniversary and wedding celebrations were a big deal, and it was typical for a clever friend to write a few lines to accompany a gift. The slang term "spooning," which referred to romantic closeness, was popular in the 1880s and 1890s, making Field's pun hit home perfectly. The Jenneys were likely close friends of Field, and the poem feels personal and intimate, as if it were crafted for a small gathering rather than a wider audience. Field passed away in 1895 at the age of 45, leaving behind a substantial collection of newspaper verse, much of it characterized by a warm and humorous tone.

§07FAQ

Questions readers ask

It's a phrase from Victorian slang. To "spoon" meant to woo someone romantically — cuddling, whispering, and all that sweet stuff. Field is encouraging Harvey and Ellen to rekindle their romance and act like they did when they were young and in love.

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