Funeral poems serve a specific purpose: they articulate the feelings of grief without adding to the mourners' pain, while also honoring the true essence of the deceased. Some draw on faith — like the Twenty-Third Psalm, which offers hope of reunion. Others evoke nature — suggesting that a person becomes part of the rain, the wind, or the changing seasons. Some are starkly honest, choosing to express sorrow over providing solace. At their best, these poems give everyone present permission to acknowledge their emotions.
The tradition of elegiac poetry is one of the oldest. From Tennyson's *In Memoriam* to Mary Elizabeth Frye's "Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep," penned on a paper bag in 1932, the range is vast. There are poems for parents, for children, for friends taken too soon, and for those who had long, fulfilling lives. Some fit within a church, others in an open field, and some resonate when the only shared belief is the profound loss of the person who has died.
This page collects that body of work and assists you in finding the right poem for the appropriate moment.
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Poems About Funeralin the open canon
You're in a kitchen the night before the service, or you're holding a printed order of ceremony, preparing to read something aloud to a crowd you can barely face right now. Perhaps you're thinking ahead — a parent is ill, a friend has passed away unexpectedly, and someone needs to find the right words. That's the role…
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§01 Opening
On funeral
A reader's preface to the theme — what to listen for as you move through the poems below.
Where to begin with funeral
Three ways in01 · Most-read entry
Buffalo Bill's Defunct
by E. E. Cummings, 1920
Read the line-by-line analysis, themes, and historical context for this entry in Storgy's index.
02 · Editor's pick
Home Burial
by Robert Frost, 1914
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03 · Counterpoint
THE BURIAL OF THE DEAD
by T. S. Eliot, 1922
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§03 The index
Every poem in this theme
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Buffalo Bill's Defunct
E. E. Cummings1920Excerpt - 02
Home Burial
Robert Frost1914Excerpt - 03
THE BURIAL OF THE DEAD
T. S. Eliot1922Excerpt - 04
TO THE MEMORY OF SIR CECIL
Alfred Noyes1922Excerpt - 05
VICTORY
Alfred Noyes1922Excerpt - 06
A BABY'S EPITAPH
Algernon Charles Swinburne—PD - 07
ABU MIDJAN
Eugene Field—PD - 08
A DIRGE.
Percy Bysshe Shelley—PD - 09
ADONAIS.
Percy Bysshe Shelley—PD - 10
After Death
Christina Rossetti—PD - 11
AFTER THE BURIAL
James Russell Lowell—PD - 12
AGASSIZ
James Russell Lowell—PD - 13
AGED 22
Amy Lowell—PD - 14
A HALL OF THE PRISON.
Percy Bysshe Shelley—PD - 15
A JACOBITE'S FAREWELL
Algernon Charles Swinburne—PD - 16
A LYKE-WAKE SONG
Algernon Charles Swinburne—PD - 17
Amores
D. H. Lawrence—PD - 18
AN ELEGY ON THE DEATH OF JOHN KEATS,
Percy Bysshe Shelley—PD - 19
ARCHYTAS.
Horace—PD - 20
A Refusal to Mourn the Death, by Fire, of a Child in London
Dylan Thomas—PD
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Short poems about funeral
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§04 Reader's questions
On funeral, frequently asked
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Mary Elizabeth Frye's **"Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep"** is incredibly popular, and it's easy to see why — it's brief, universal in its appeal, and resonates even when read aloud through tears. W.H. Auden's **"Funeral Blues"** is perfect for those moments when grief is intense and needs to be expressed. If you're looking for something more subdued, Christina Rossetti's **"Remember"** offers mourners a gentle way to find closure.
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**"Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep"** by Mary Elizabeth Frye is likely the most popular funeral poem in the English-speaking world. Following closely are **"Funeral Blues"** by W.H. Auden, which gained fame through the film *Four Weddings and a Funeral*, and Henry Scott Holland's prose-poem **"Death Is Nothing at All,"** both of which are frequently featured at memorial services.
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Rossetti's **"Remember"** consists of fourteen lines and can be read in under a minute. **"She Is Gone"** by David Harkins is another concise, straightforward option that divides mourners into two stanzas — one for sorrow and one for remembrance. Both poems are effective choices when readers feel anxious or when the service is short.
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**"If I Should Go"** by Joyce Grenfell has a warm and gentle humor that resonates with a parent who would prefer no tears. Many readers choose **"Those Winter Sundays"** by Robert Hayden for a father—it's a poignant reflection on unspoken love that hits deeply. For a mother, Mary Oliver's poetry, particularly **"When Death Comes,"** captures the essence of a life fully lived.
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Yes, and there are many. **"Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep"** is essentially secular. Philip Larkin's **"Aubade"** confronts mortality directly without assuming an afterlife. Mary Oliver's poems frequently revisit nature as the only form of eternity we can witness. **"She Is Gone"** by David Harkins also resonates without any religious context.
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**"Do Not Go Gentle into That Good Night"** — a well-known poem in English literature. Thomas wrote it for his father, who was nearing the end of his life. This villanelle features two refrains that recur throughout, creating a powerful, almost hypnotic effect when spoken aloud. The poem emphasizes resisting death rather than surrendering, making it suitable for some funerals but not for others.
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**"Surprised by Joy"** by Wordsworth conveys the unexpected nature of grief without relying on faith. **"The Peace of Wild Things"** by Wendell Berry finds solace in the beauty of nature. For a more straightforward approach, **"Dirge Without Music"** by Edna St. Vincent Millay doesn't shy away from the reality of death — and that kind of honesty can be just what a secular service requires.
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Mary Elizabeth Frye penned **"Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep"** in 1932, reportedly on a brown paper bag for a friend who was grieving. She chose not to copyright it, which likely contributed to its widespread popularity. For many years, the poem remained anonymous, and it wasn't until the 1990s that Frye was recognized as its author.